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somthing that has been on my mind....feedback plz :)

Ok so this is something that has been bothering me for a while (about a week) and i have been concentrating a little too much on it to the point where its starting to have a negative effect on my mood.So heres the question....how do you know if someone your with is "the one"?Are there any signs like how they make you feel,how you feel about them,anything.Also how long do you think you should be with someone before you can say that they are "the one"..All feed back is much apriciated and wanted. as much feedback and fews as posible the best thanks.

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Permalink Reply by NoLimit24_FJ aka Jim on June 12, 2008 at 11:13pm: Hi Andrew...

This is a very very tough question, but one I can try and explain to you when you and I have a chance to talk. Also, I need to read and reread this a few prior to giving you my opinion.

I can tell you this, and some folks who know me know what I mean...They know the love I felt...and that story can relate to this post...

I have been there where I met someone who I definitely knew was "the one". There are a few signs one can "sense" about their ultimate "soulmate"...

Further on the question about "how long"...well, how would "one" day...or "first" meeting be? I can really get into this question and all the questions you are asking,...and I do want to respond more...so for now...look for my response...maybe we can talk about it on a show sometime if you want to...

Love is powerful stuff...and when one meets a "soulmate", it becomes even more powerful...

So, for now just let me say...all your questions are "deep" pondering questions...but for me, I understand where you are speaking from as I mentioned...I have been there...and trust me...I can relate to what ya asking and I will gladly share thoughts about it...

So, just wanted you to know I have now read the post here...we need to bring it over to new domain as well...this site is not as active now due to my work on new site and a few have or are in "waiting" for the new site...I can and will generate interest in this forum...it will and should provide some real insights from several people...

Get back to you on this...it is late and I will not be as alert as I need to be when I come from the heart on this forum post...talk to you soon...

Jim
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Permalink Reply by kimi b on June 17, 2008 at 4:37pm: Hi Andrew,
You raise and excellent question..one that has been asked through the ages. Most people will tell you that you just "know". And that is true when you are in a place when you are ready to make a lifetime commitment. Most of us thought we knew at the time, but if we are honest will ourselves, looking back, it just seemed like the right thing to do at the time.
Your question, how do you know if that person is "the one"? Well that person may be "the one" at that particular time in your life. That person may be "the one" that compliments who you are at that particular time in your life, "the one" that you can't wait to be with, "the one" who makes you feel more special than anyone else ever. But the reality is that we grow, evolve and mature and many times outgrow those special relationships. It doesn't mean that it was a waste of time. If you allow it to, you can learn and grow and take something special from each relationship which will nurture you to be the man you want to be for "the one".
The words you will hear (and hate) the most are that you are young and you have lots of time, don't rush it. As much as that may grate on you, it's the one absolute truth here. Those of us who are more seasoned, know that to be true. You may feel that the person you are now, is the person you will always be, but that's not really so. There is a world to experience, both good and bad, to enlighten and mature you to enhance your relationship with "the one".
I believe in soulmates and I truly believe that there are people in the world who are destined to be together. My belief is that God has someone out in the world for each of us and that when the time is right, those soulmates will meet and it will be as if the universe exploded! Your soulmate should enhance and bring out the best in you, to make you want to be a better man (in the words of Jack Nicholson). If there is anything toxic or negative, no matter how that person make you feel otherwise, that person is not the right one.
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